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Overthinking, peace and pace breaker

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 Has it ever happened to you while in school, on Sunday night you realised that there is a class test and you are not prepared yet . You are really scared of the exam , you think you are going to fail in the exam. Your teacher will insult you in the class and might complaint to your parents. I am sure you might have found yourself in similar situations . I have faced similar situations many times in school , in college and in day to day life. If we see carefully the pattern of my thoughts there , one can clearly say i was overthinking. I was thinking about the things probably which were not going to happen. As the next day teacher was absent , i got my chance to study and i scored well in the exam. Overthinking is a vicious cycle. You will get into some repetitive and unproductive thoughts , these thoughts are mostly negative and future oriented . Overthinking causes self doubt, makes you feel underconfident  , feel stress, anxiety and gradually depression. Overthinking is a p...
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Life changing ways to learn from these 3 books

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  Reading books wasn't my kind of thing a couple of months ago , but as i started reading to follow my new year resolution i bumped upon some really good books . So here i will be sharing my quick reviews about the books which will help any new reader like me who just started reading or anyone in search of good reads . As the books are very famous and bestsellers so it doesn't need much introduction . The books that i read are here 1. Ikigai 2. The monk who sold his ferrari 3.  Think straight  1. Ikigai Ikigai - japanese secret to a long and happy life . This book is known to all . To explain about this book i can say it is amazing . It talks about physical health , mental health , happiness ,good habits , passion , social relation building and more or less every aspect of the life for a stressfree life . The ideas shared are also very part of japanese life which considered to be the secret  of many centenarian found in japan , okinawa island. My personal e...
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EVERYDAY I FIGHT WITH MYSELF FOR MY DREAMS

 Living with many dreams, to give them a shape, we all are everyday fighting for our dreams with others , with the world and most importantly with ownself . Everyday my dreams make me restless, and as long as it takes to come true , it makes me an easy target to quit . In these uncertainity and tough situation if situation worsen will i quit ?  Probably no , i won't . When i fought with others for my dreams how can i loose from myself . I know my dreams are worth my pain and fight. It's easy for people to come and say to me that your dreams are like expecting to catch the moon from the earth , the moon is far but how would one know if no one try to catch it .  My soul everyday tells me , if you loose to other that is fine but if you loose to yourself it is same as suicide .                                             So it is everyday i say to myself it won't...
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Female traveller first travel (solo)experience

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 Travelling is fun , it is an exposure to the wider world , to the beauty , to the wild , to the colors , to the culture , to the food , to the people . And solo travelling in itself is an adventure , a learning or you can say a therapy. My experience of travelling to Nainital is here, though i wasn't entirely solo , my friend was with me but we being two females challenges were different . So, here i will share my bit of personal experience which may be helpful for many other female solo traveller or anyone who is planning to travel  in general. My bad experiences for which i may think twice whie travelling solo, 1. In tourist places locals , tour guides some time get harsh while selling their goods or services  and same thing happended with me it was a bit scary to get almost chased by the tour guides and the street seller . It is very common to face these in tourist place but indeed unpleasant. 2. As saftey has all been a concern , my experience is a shared cab from Ka...
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MUST VISIT PLACES IN NAINITAL !

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  Thrilled by the beauty of  NAINITAL  , you are planning a trip to the  " The Lake District of India" and need a list of places so that you can plan your itinerary then you hit the right spot . Most of the places listed here are at a distance of 2-5 km (except few) and a 2-3 days trip to Nainital would be sufficient enough to visit all these places.  And here the list starts , 1. NAINI LAKE A boat ride while enjoying the beauty of the city and watching the lofty mountains surrounding the city is an absolute not to miss out . Naini lake is just few meters distance from the Nainital bus stand. It's easy to get a boat ride which could cost upto INR 210 for complete tour of the lake . Just beside the lake a road locally known as Thandi sarak could offer you a pleasant stroll so try not to miss it out.       2. NAINA DEVI TEMPLE                                   ...
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NAINITAL TRAVEL PLAN !!

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Nainital ,  the famous hill station from northern state of Uttarakhand attract huge number of tourists throughout the year . The scenic beauty ,calm and pleasant weather makes it favourite place for tourists.              Apart from it's natural beauty the city offers a lot to explore and        in a very affordable budget . It's easy to acces  lake district  India       and varied travel options are also available.        Boat ride, shopping in mall road , exploring Bhutia market       Naina   Devi temple darshan, trying out street foods , exposure to       flora  and  fauna of Kumaun Himalaya, trekking and camping are       some must  do things.                                                   ...
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Question -Answer

  Living as a human allows us to ask question and get our answer , clarify our doubt , build our trust and so . But not always you want to ask a question and still you need an answer .     A question without answer within you makes you heavy , your energy get drained out in something which never will have an possitive outcome ,but still you don't ask that question because you are scared of , you are scared of the fact that you ultimately may ruin the things .    Its not only with you that you are scared of asking question , its also with someone who wants to answer you but scared that you may not understand . The other person is waiting for the moment to tell the things before you question but its hard to do . This is the way we are growing , we are breaking our hearts , we are ruining our peace , we are increasing the gaps and we are hating things blaming it worst . No doubt causes and consequences are many but solution is confrontation , ofcourse its hard to t...
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